Life skills. I can teach those to my kids. Let's learn how to cook, bake, make a bed, unload the dishwasher, weed the garden.
We get through the day with a skill set that is essential. How would a mom cope if she couldn't 14 household chores at once? She would learn quick, that's for sure.
And don't forget the never ending chore list that has normal moms dropping into bed each night, later than they hoped, with exhaustion.
This schedule takes more than life skills. This simple mothering fact had not donned on me really until a children's song and Joshua 1 drilled it into my head. It takes more than skills. It takes courage.
I guess I thought I was super mom, juggling the to-do's while staying mostly sane, fighting through the I-don't-want-to's with only a few sighs of frustration.
The song goes something like this:
It takes courage. Courage to face the day.
It takes courage. Only God can show the way.
No matter what your circumstance, He always stays the same.
It takes courage.
Does my normal hectic day take courage? Do I tremble in fear or anxiety over things I must face? The part in the song that kept getting stuck in my head was "courage to face the day." Not just courage on the fiery-furnace days, but courage on too-much-laundry-not-enough-energy-or-patience-kind of days.
God talked a lot about courage and strength to his servant Joshua. Moses had died, the Promised Land was in the Israelite's grasp, and Joshua was put in charge. No small order, but the LORD said, "Be strong and courageous." The message was so important that "be strong and courageous" is encouraged 3 times in 4 verses, along with "I will never leave you nor forsake you," "Do not be afraid," "Do not be discouraged," and "The LORD your God will be with you wherever you go" (Joshua 1:5-9).
Courage is defined as the quality of mind or spirit that enables a person to face difficulty, danger, and/or pain without fear. And to have the courage of one's convictions, to act in accordance with one's beliefs, especially in spite of criticism (Dictionary.com).
Our normal days require us to face difficulty for sure. Ever wrangled a point-of-purchase candy bar out of the hands of a screaming toddler in a crowded grocery store? Courage. What donned on me with a repetitious children's song and some repetitious verses in Joshua is that I don't get through my day on my strength alone. And even with God's help, I still have the choice to fear my responsibilities or embrace them.
By teaching my children life skills, it might be valuable in the world's eyes, but real life takes more. My grown-up children will need more to get through their days than just an amazing skill set. Teaching them courage and dependence on God is essential.
The fiery furnace or enemy's army might be a strong-willed child or a pile of laundry today (or both!). Joshua's pep-talk from the LORD himself says it best, "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go” (Verse 9).
2 comments:
Boy, do I ever need courage today! We are sorting toys. I'm afraid! Thanks for the reminder that God will give me courage to handle the inevitable fits and arguments headed my way today.
Wow. Talk about apt today! My husband and I just had a conversation last night. We're being led in new directions and it's stretching my abilities & patience. I vividly remember saying "Well, Abraham had an out loud promise from God that he would have a son. How are we supposed to know what we're really doing??" Enter your devotional today and the phrases: ""I will never leave you nor forsake you," "Do not be afraid," "Do not be discouraged," and "The LORD your God will be with you wherever you go" (Joshua 1:5-9)." God's amazing:)
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